The best pickup line ever really isnt a pickup line at all. By their nature, pickup line’s don’t work. Women can tell that you are picking up on them, and they are automatically turned off, unless you are a celebrety or rockstar, which we are not.

The best pickup lines are the ones that don’t seem like you are trying to pick up the girl. If you think about the most stereotypical pickup lines out there, such as “Are you tired? Cause you’ve been running through my mind all day!”, they all imply interest in the girl from the get go. From the second you open your mouth, the girl is receiving compliments and praise from you, while perceiving you as attempting to hook up with her or get her into bed.

Remembering this, the first things you say to a woman can’t be perceived as you trying to hit on her, they have to be perceived by the girl as you just being a nice, friendly, intriguing stranger. Opinion openers do a great job of this. A favorite of mine is as follows.

You say:
Hey, would you girls ever date a guy that lived with his mom?

They say:
mixed responses:yes, no, maybe, why are you asking me this, who are you, etc.

You then say:
“cause my good buddy Raechel, I’ve known her for like 8 years, has been dating this 28 year old guy thats never left his parents house, and im like… are you SERIOUS?”

They say:
This opener is usually met with a response that someone she knows is in the same situation, she would never do this, maybe if she loved the guy, etc.

Keys to success:
Be suprised and caught off guard that you can’t beleive your girlfriend raechel just told you of her relationship. Us sugestive body language, conveying that you are about to leave as soon as she answers you.

If your trying to meet new girls, or trying to cure oneitis, you have to have a stable of openers like this so that you have something to talk about the second that you see a girl you may be interested in. When using pickup lines like this, it is important to walk up to the girl and use them as soon as you see her. The longer you wait, the harder it is to work up the courage to approach her and use the pickup line.

I found a great page for curing oneitis at They Hate The Game. You can also read mine below.

To cure oneitis you need to to put in allot less work, pain and anguish than you think. Curing oneitis isn’t a game of mental willpower, discipline, and mastery over your feelings for a girl you want to move on from, it is simply adhering to a tried and true principle that men have uttered for decades.

“Nothing cures the old girl like the new girl”

This has been said before in much cruder terms, but the rated G version should suffice.

Instead of trying to tough it out by forcing yourself to stop thinking about her, get over her, or forget she exists, just go out and MEET NEW GIRLS. On average, most guys don’t do this because, lets be honest, we are all nervous about meeting new girls on some level. To move you along, I am including a guaranteed, tried and true, opener to use on girls. All you have to do is go to school, go to the mall, clubs, or a party, and just use this scripted line of conversation over and over and meet as many new girls as you can. The more new girls you meet, the sooner you will realize that all the amazing special things about your oneitis that you can’t get over are actually present in loads of other girls out there. You just have to meet them first.

Here is your opener:

You say:
Hey, really quick, do you girls love animals?

Let them respond:

You then say:
Okay, so my friends girlfriend Jenifer loves her cat… like SO much…..so much so that she got online and bought a wig for her cat that she sticks on its head all the time, and it makes the cat look like donald trump. Is that to far?

They respond:
They respond that its ridiculous, they laugh, etc. This spawns conversation about how your friends girl could be nuts, and what are better, cats or dogs.

Keys to victory:
you can tease the target about how she seems like the type to dress up her chihuahua in little pink sweaters, or how shes going to grow up to be a crazy cat lady.

Bonus:
later in your friendship/relationship/hooking up with her, you can get in front of a computer with her and do a search for kitty wigs. The website will come up in the search results, and you can then click on the site, and look at all the ridiculous wigs for cats.

To ditch your oneitis, you just have to be armed with the right tools to move forward and see how many great amazing girls there are in the world aside from the one you are obsessing over.

If you want further help with new openers to use on women, games to play with them, or general attitudes you should adopt when dealing with women, scoot over to Double your Dating

Women are not attracted to neediness. In this realm of attraction, neediness is defined as constantly needing to much support, validation, and reinforcement from women. Women can sense this like you can’t believe, because they are much more perceptive than men are. Here are a few signs to watch for that can tell you if you are teetering dangerously close to giving a woman the impression that you are overly needy.

You sit around trying to decide if you should call her on the phone.

When you call a girl, it should be because you want to call her, and it just popped into your head at that moment, and you thought it was a good idea. Calling a girl spur of the moment or within a few seconds of deciding to call her makes you much more relaxed and comfortable. The same principle applies when you approach a woman. It causes you to be the same person that you are when you call one of your friends.

Calling a girl should be as spontaneous as calling one of your guy friends. There is no need to have a plan when calling her, just call her, shoot the breeze for a few minutes, telling her something exciting that happened to you that day (at least make something up, its flirting, not lying) and then excuse yourself to get back to whatever fun thing you were doing before calling her. If calling a girl spur of the moment without any plan sounds daunting, Double your Dating is an absolute necessity. It will give you the attitudes that you need to be ridiculously attractive to women, regardless of looks or money.

If you have found yourself wondering if you should call her for the past four hours, then under no circumstance should you call her. It will be apparent in your voice, how your talking, and what your saying that you are insecure, and unsure that you should be on the phone with her.

You give her way more “understanding” than any of your friends.

If your best friend was supposed to meet you for lunch and didn’t show up, you’d call him and ask what the heck was going on. If he missed lunch with you three days in a row, you’d start thinking he was a douche bag that was incapable of making plans or being committed to anything and you would probably distance yourself from him.

So when a girl constantly tells you that she’s sick when you ask her out, says she has plans, or says she will call back and never does, why do guys constantly make up excuses for her, trying to make it okay that she bailed on them, or never called back?

Screw the common saying “three strikes your out” and cut it down to two strikes or just one if she does something totally unacceptable. If a girl says no to two different dates, or if she doesn’t answer or return your calls twice, then forget about her. In the long run she will respect you much more because you were the guy that just left after she didn’t give you the attention she wanted, instead of nagging her and being overly needy for three months straight.

Delete her number. I guarantee she’ll call you out of the blue two months later, wondering why you disappeared.

you call her or text her more than 2 times with no response from her.

In a girls world, this is probably the craziest, weirdest thing that you could do. Women’s lives are chock full of lunatic dudes that text them and call them incessantly even though the girl never calls them back. I have gotten to a point in my game where I can attract any woman that I want, and girls now do this to me. There is one girl named chelsea that texts me or calls me at least once every two days and I have not returned one of her attempts to talk to me for at least two months. I feel like she is a psycho.

Text a girl or call her once, if she doesn’t respond, you can text her or call her one more time. After that, you can, under no circumstances, ever call or text her again until she calls or texts you first. If I could, I would engrave this rule in the moon, really big, so that they whole world could see it. If you are constantly calling her and messaging her, or even emailing her to no response, you have fallen into the dark, deep, cavern of being overly needy, and its time to crawl back out.

There is a huge difference between attracting women and attracting beautiful women. For the sake of this article, I will define a beautiful woman as a girl who is hands down absolutely gorgeous physically and totally competent and intelligent mentally, with an absolutely magnetic personality and incredibly healthy out look on life. One thing that pisses me off royally is not seeing enough guys go for this type of woman.

When learning how to better attract girls, men often fall into the habit of consistently dating and attracting mediocre women. They do this because its easy, they perceive much less room for failure with these type of women, and they are just plain to lazy to exert some effort to get the absolute best type of girl they can, the girl that they truly deserve. I’m issuing a wake-up call to men around the world: “The game” as we all like to call it is specifically designed to work on these types of women, not average girls ranging from 4 to 7 on the scale of 10.

The ideas of neging, making fun of girls, teasing them. Making a woman feel like you are in control and your are masculine, cocky, and funny. These are all ideas and formulas specifically designed to work on women that are cream of the crop. Practicing the tightest most superior game that you can will actually hurt you with the more average girls because they cannot handle your confidence, cockiness, intelligence and masculinity because they do not feel worthy, or they feel inferior. However, this same tight game will work miracles attracting women that are perfect 10’s in all areas of life.

I can’t stress how important it is for every guy out there to get extremely tight game and start going after the most quality women that they can find. This is why I recommend Double your Dating so highly. It focuses on the core attitude and perception changes that every man needs to make to attract these types of women.

We all talk to women, and we all want to be intriguing when we talk to them. Because of this, its important to have a list of conversation topics that you can have ready whenever you go on a date, go to a club, or find yourself at a party looking to socialize. Here I’m giving you what I think is one of the best things

Fun, random, totally useless facts.

If you think back hard enough, you have certainly been in a conversation with someone who says that they know all sorts of useless facts, and they don’t know how they got all of them. Maybe they watched shark week every year for ten years, or maybe their parents made them read lots, regardless, they sure had allot of things to talk about. Keep this in mind when thinking up what to say to girls.

An example of how this works with women is to say something like “wow, I learned the craziest thing today! Did you know that the average human only spends a total of two weeks of their whole life kissing?….And you know what’s even crazier? The average human also spends two weeks of their life at stop lights. That means that your waiting at stoplights the same amount of time your getting action…So sad for the average person, wouldn’t you agree?”

She will most likely then go into how she hopes to break that record, and how she thinks that she has spend more than two weeks of her life kissing. How about that, your already getting her to justify her sexuality and intimacy level to you. For an excellent resource of other random facts to talk about with women, just do a search for “list of random facts” on your favorite search engine.

Your friends relationship issues

Everyone has friends (I sure hope you do) and everyones friends have some sort of relationship drama. Your present it in the form of “your not gonna believe what this girl did to my friend last night” and then go on to tell her about how a girl that he barely knew and only went on one date with sent him a celine dion video over email. Go on to say that she had made the video to play the song over a montage of photos that she had made herself. Isnt that creepy?

The point is that you can get a girl talking about relationships and girl and guy interactions very easily if you tell her about some goofy thing that happened with your guy friend and some “crazy girl”. Most of the time she fires back with a crazy boy story of her own.

Anything intellectual or intelligent topic, except politics

For example: “So I was bored in the dentist office the other day and I picked up this medical journal while I was waiting for the doctor and I read the craziest thing…There was a study done on 1,000 women and they were all asked if they would rather date a rich stock broker, or a poor children’s story book writer…And the overwhelming amount said the story book writer….I was thinking, “what a bunch of crazy women! Go for the rich guy!”" Then ask her what she would do, because your so confused as to why so many women would want the broke book writer guy.

While all three of these subjects can be fun to talk about, its better to have a whole range of ways to attract women. Double your Dating is a resource that I highly recommend every guy picks up.

The art of Attracting women is a subject that would take up an entire book. And lucky for me, another person already wrote a good one, because I only feel like writing an article.

Be attracted to her, but not because of her sexuality:

See something in her that no one else sees. If a woman is a perfect 10, she has had hundreds of guys tell her she’s beautiful, has a lovely smile, a killer rack, etc, etc. Women are wary of guys who just see them as a sex object.

To attract a woman, see something special in her, say “You are so unique! the way you slur your r’s and draw out our o’s when your talking is so funny” or “Im so drawn to you, you move so elegantly around this place that I feel as if were at a formal ball at the Queen Of England’s Castle. Not this dive bar in Tucson with vomit all over the floor. “ She’ll laugh at that one, and she’ll be flattered in a way she hasn’t before.

Be intriguing:

Everyday each one of us wakes up and has encounters with the boring and mundane. You meet someone new and people always ask the standard; where are you from, what do you do, how old are you?

What if instead of asking the standard interview questions you instead had interesting, intriguing things to talk about with a girl? What if someone guaranteed you that they would beat you at rock paper scissors best two out of three, and then did, or what if they told you to pick a number between 1 and a billion and then guessed your number right? That person would have your attention. We can’t tell you how to read minds, but we can tell you that rock, rock, paper will beat 7 out of 10 women every time. Research the psychology of why on your own.

attracting girls is as simple as watching the animal channel and being able to talk about the mating habits of the Albanian Mountain Yak. Just have something to talk about that no one else can throw into a conversation, and you’ll be on your way to learning how to attract women.

Success doesn’t matter, ambition does:

When you want to attract a woman, you don’t have to be seen in a Mercedes Benz, you just have to convey that you are a stable, ambitious person that has hopes and dreams and is. Always be actively pursuing youe passions in life.

Instead of lying about your profession or going into debt to buy a BMW, just convey that you have plans, goals and expectations for yourself. I have a good friend who has ambitions to own his own salt water fish tank store someday. At his apartment, he has a really small fish tank filled with fish and coral, and after 5 minutes of introducing a woman to his various fish and telling her his ambitions, she’s as hot for him as I’ve ever seen a woman be.

Seeing the potential for success is just as attractive, if not more so, than having already achieved success. The more unique your ambitions are, the more you stand out, and the more attraction and intrigue a woman can have for you.

Be Masculine:

Women are attracted to men, so be a man. Being a man doesn’t entail bench pressing 300 pounds or punching people in the face. In terms of attracting a woman, being a man means being decisive and knowing what you want out of life. Learn how to gain confidence with women and exude masculinity, and women are hard wired to be attracted to you.

A key aspect of being masculine is to convey an attitude that says to a woman : “I am so entirely comfortable and happy with my life that I don’t need anything from anyone, but Im sort of intrigued by you, so I’ll give you a chance cause I can tell your into me.” The absolute best resource for learning how to attract women by having attitudes like this is Double your Dating. Its mandatory reading, and is one of the best resources for attracting women.

Understand her:

There are upwards of 6 billion people on earth and to attract a girl she has to see you as one of the few people out of them that really understands her, is similar to her, and has the ability to really grow with and experience things with her.

At some point in any relationship, you have to find commonalities and build off of them. They could be as small as realizing that you both have the same favorite breakfast cereal, or as rare as finding that you both share a lifelong dream of skinny dipping in the Aegean sea off the shore of Greece. The more far fetched and unique your commonalities are, the more she will feel like you understand where she is coming from, and the more powerful the attraction she will feel for you.

Be a wounded bird

Don’t go overboard with this one, but have a dark secret, have a few emotional scars, have something that makes you vulnerable.

As a woman gets to know you, she needs to find proof that your a real person with real feelings and emotions. This means have a story about when your dog died when you were nine and it showed you how fragile life really was. Tell her about how you watched your little brother get beat up by bullies in elementary school and it weighed so heavy on you that you got a black belt in Jiu Jitsu. Now you can protect him the rest of your life. Whatever it is, make it true. Everyone out there has flaws, and it is attractive to disclose them at the right time.

These bullet points give you a great overview of how to attract women. For more specific advice about asking her out check out the dating site They Hate The Game.

I’ve seen studies that claim even mildly attractive women get hit on upwards of 7 times a day. Most of the time the things guys say to women are “how are you doing”, “how was your day”, “whatsup” or some other generic greeting that she hears 49 times a week (I did the math).

For the best info on what to say to women check out Dylan Sauders website They Hate The Game. His website is the best I’ve found on this subject.

Everything that you say to a girl should add value to your conversation and make you stand out from the 48 other guys that she will interact with that week. The absolute best way to do this is to tease and flirt with her in ways that no other guy does. I’ve taken the three most common situations I get asked questions on regarding what to say and given you some nudges in the right direction. The text message pointers at the end of the article are especially golden.

1. What to say to a woman when you first meet

Act relaxed and cool, but with a hint of excitement and positive energy. Extensive studies have shown that up to 93% of communication is non-verbal. That means that what you say to a woman has to be complimented by body language that attracts women and vocal tone that conveys confidence. Just having these two things down can put an attractive frame around nearly any words you say to a woman.

approach her and her group and come in saying something neutral like: (while smiling) “hey my group of friends and I are having a bit of a playful disagreement and I’ve got to get back to them with an answer” You‘ve in effect just told them “Hey, Im socially normal, I have friends that Im here with, I have better things to do than come over and try to latch onto your group, and I just need your input really quick and then Im outta here”.

Once you have their attention, say something like “Would you ever date your step cousin?” (here they may say mixed things, or just look surprised, but just continue) “Because our good friend Dave was just introduced to his step mom’s sisters daughter and they hit it off like crazy, now the daughter wants to move here from New York to be with him.” Keep in mind you are conveying all of this in a fun, half joking way, like you can’t believe your friend may be dating his step cousin. Women talk about relationships much more than men, and I’ve run into plenty of situations where we’ve used this opener, and a woman has offered up a story of someone she knows that was in a similar situation. Regardless of what she says in response, you are now in a conversation with her, and she doesn’t even feel she’s been hit on. Feel free to use this approach with any sort of relationship drama thats going on in your social circle.

2. What to say to a woman when you call her

It is incredibly attractive to a woman when a man can carry a conversation well. When you call her the first time and she answers, tie back to the previous conversation when you met. Whenever I meet a girl I like to find an excuse to give a girl a nickname, and she will usually give me one in return. For example, I met a girl the other day who wore so many gold and silver bracelets that every time she moved her arm, there was a really loud jingling sound. You can guess what I nicknamed her. I told her I was going to call her jingles because she had the loudest wrists of anyone I had ever met. The first time I called her, she answers and I say “Jingles, whatsup?” And she immediately remembers who I am, no awkward “Hi, Im Dave, the guy you met at wherever”. I automatically establish familiarity with her and were flirting right off the bat.

After a brief laugh, I go into a new conversation thread. “So the craziest thing happened to me” and tell her a funny entertaining story like how you saw a woman crash into a guys car at a stoplight, get out and start arguing with him, slap him, then all the sudden they were making out in the middle of an intersection. You get the idea, just come up with the most entertaining thing that happened to you that day, share it, and then after a laugh, she will start telling you about her day that was not nearly as exciting as yours.

3. What to say when you text a girl

If your having a hard time getting ahold of a girl on the phone, or if you just love texting more than anything, there are things to text a girl that will stand out among the other 49 guys she’s gotten texts from that week.

Remember my girl jingles? i texted her the following a couple days after meeting her. “Jingles! hope your not making to much noise at work, I’d fire you if I was your boss” . She replies: “what? you’d fire me, so mean”. I then reply: “Well if the constant jingling annoyed the office, yes, but I can tell that beneath all the accessories, your probably a decent person”. She replies: “haha… your so funny” and we kept on texting and eventually started dating.

The key is to be attracting her at all times, never texting the average “hey, how you doing” etc until later in the relationship. another good example of a text I could have sent to jingles is “ Jingles, I just heard a car crash and it was almost as loud as your bracelets”. Send something funny and entertaining that ties back to an inside joke you had when you met her, or at least ties back to the place you met her, using some type of humor. The type of text teasing that I did with Jingles is actually the cornerstone of flirting. Your always teasing and your always having fun.

Just approaching women is a point of anxiety or nervousness for most men. this stems from a guy not being entirely certain that the approach will result in a positive outcome (a phone number, plans for a date, hook up, etc). With the right attitude and things to say to her, any guy can be a pro at approaching women.

Here are the four most important things to remember when approaching a woman.

Always approach a woman within seconds of seeing her

This is extremely successful for a few reasons. First off, it gives the woman you are approaching the impression that you spontaneously noticed her and didn’t lurk off in a corner planning the perfect way to hit on her before saying hello. Women are much more comfortable and feel safer with you if you just started talking to them by chance when you noticed them.

Secondly, hyping yourself up over approaching a girl or trying to work up the courage or confidence to talk to her after you have already noticed her does much more damage to your game than just approaching. Going up to her within seconds of seeing her will help you to be more relaxed because you haven’t spent the past 10 minutes waiting for the perfect opportunity or coming up with a plan to hit on her. Instead, you have no desire for a particular outcome because you haven’t planned it out. This allows you to be free, in the moment, and able to approach the girl with less nervousness.

Seem like your only going to talk to her for a second

Even not so attractive women get hit on more than a guy can understand. Because of this, women often think “how long am I stuck with this guy” as soon as they are approached by anyone. Most guys will approach a woman, and stick to her like glue forever just hoping that she will start liking them.

Be the exception to the rule. Within seconds of beginning a conversation with a woman, mention how you have to get back to your friends in a second, or how you have to get up early in the morning, so your going home to sleep soon. This lets the woman know she is safe talking to you, because you have to leave in the next few minutes and wont suffocate her all night. You can then use the next few minutes to get her intrigued by you and then she will be trying to convince you to stay at the party, or introduce her to your friends.

Forget the standard questions

too often men think the way to approach women is to seem sincerely interested in them and ask them standard questions that she has heard over and over. When a woman encounters a guy like this, she only hears “I have nothing to offer, or anything exciting to say, so tell me everything about you so that we can keep this conversation going”.

Always know what your going to say to women before you go out that night. Plan an opening line such as: “Hey I need a female opinion before getting back to my friends really quick. My good friends ex girlfriend is here tonight and he wants to ignore her all night, but I’m the one that introduced them a year ago. Am I supposed to have my friends back and ignore her, or do I be friendly with her since I knew her first? I’m sort of torn.” She then starts asking you questions about how close you are with your guy friend, when the last time you saw the girl was, and all the sudden you find yourself having a normal interaction with this girl.

Asking an obscure opinion like this is different than the same old shallow talk she’s had all night, and it actually can tell you allot about her relationship values, outlook on life, and personality in a round about way. These types of ways to open a conversation skip all the boring social norm questions that we’ve all been asked a thousand times (what’s your job, where did you grow up, etc.)

Notice something about her

After you have approached her and she’s in the middle of telling you that you should be buddies with the girl, or that you should have your friends back (or responding to whatever situation you posed to her) Notice that she looks like a cartoon character or that she seems like the mother hen of her group of friends. “Wow, you really seem like you deal with relationship drama allot, you totally seem like the mother hen and all of them (motioning to her friends) are like your little ducklings with all these relationship issues. haha”. She’ll laugh or chuckle slightly and you can get on with more normal conversation.

Throughout the first few minutes of your approach, you should be turned slightly away from her as if you could leave her and get back to your friends at any time.

Finally

Coupled with learning how to gain confidence with women, these four pointers can get you through the actual approach, and into the part of a conversation where you actually start attracting a woman. To put your dating life on steroids and genuinely attract any woman that you want, check out Double your Dating.

More often that I’d like to admit, I get the question “How do I get over oneitis” Or “How do I get over a girl?”. This hurts me because men are supposed to have an overabundance of success with women, not have a bad case of oneitis. Its usually a case of a guy being into a girl for a period of time from a week to 3 months, and he’s just convinced that its time to move on. Fortunately, when a guy asks this question, he’s already done the hard work, and the rest is easy with the right information.

For a more detailed explanation, check out Dylan Sauders site They Hate The Game and his page on oneitis

The first step is to realize how much power there is in your situation right now. Anything is achievable with a definiteness of purpose, and right now, your purpose is to finally rid yourself of the mental grasp that your oneitis has had on you. Often people describe the best way to get over oneitis as getting involved in some sort of hobby that takes your mind off of a particular girl, and to also go out and meet 20 new girls. What I have found is that these two solutions can be combined to not only get you over your oneitis, but in giving you massive success with all women from here on out.

The hobby part of the equation is most important. Don’t get involved in building model planes or sail boats, instead take an hour a day to actually learn how to attract women. I have found the ebook Double your Dating to be the best resource for moving on from your oneitis. It shows you the exact attitudes and traits that women are magnetically attracted to, and it will fill your life with plenty of attractive women.

What men often don’t realize is just how common the focus of their oneitis is. When you can’t get over a girl and shes running through your brain all the time, its hard to free up much of your focus to see just how many other beautiful women there are within 5 miles of you. This is why its important to get out of the house and meet 20 new girls. As you force yourself to approach women, you slowly have less space in your brain to focus on your oneitis. You’ll also find that you can pick up beautiful women that are 10 times more intriguing than that girl you used to be into….what was her name again? Oh well, can’t remember.

So our formula for getting over oneitis is as follows: meeting new women + immersing yourself in learning how to attract the next girl you fall for = getting over your oneitis (and having a much more fulfilling dating life in general).

Get your trial copy of Double your Dating now.

It constantly blows my mind how many quality guys that come up to me saying that they would do anything to just be confident. I’ve met some of the best, most quality guys in the world, but women never see who they really are, because they lack confidence.

The first step to gaining real confidence with women is to understand that even the best pick up artists in the world get rejected sometimes. There are just to many factors out of your control when you hit on a girl. She could be on her period, she could have just gotten out of a relationship, or her and her girlfriends could have just decided it was going to be “frigid bitch night”. Keeping this in mind, when a woman does reject you, she is not actually rejecting you, but only your approach.

How could a woman ever reject you after only a few moments of knowing you anyway? She doesn’t know enough about you to accurately judge weather or not you are someone she wants in her life. She is forced to make judgements about you based on the way she feels about how you first interact with her. So she is only rejecting her first (and often wrong) impression of you. The point is that there is no such thing as being rejected, you are only receiving input on how to approach and attract a woman better next time. This is why learning the art of attraction is so important. You must put your best foot forward, knowing what to say to women, and how to say it in any interaction.

Lastly, guys that have the most success with women are confident because they are competent. Many times people talk about confidence with women like its some sort of jedi, mystical power that you either have or you don’t. Think about how confident you are walking from one room of your house to the other. You know exactly how to walk to get there, so you just do it. A baby on the other hand may be nervous to walk just a few feet, because he really doesn’t know how to walk. The same principle applies with women. To gain true confidence, you have to learn how to pickup women. This is done by learning from one of the few quality books and learning systems that are available on the subject.

Understanding that there are factors out of your control, that a woman never actually rejects who you are as a person, and that true confidence comes with competence are the three things you must understand first. To quickly and easily adopt unshakable inner confidence with women, check out Double your Dating.