Body language to attract women

Having an appealing body language is one of the most overlooked aspects of attracting women. To often guys focus incessantly on what to say to a girl, how to say it, or trying to find the perfect pickup line. There is a killer way to use body language to attract women while talking to them, as well as a simple exercise you can do to ensure good body language all the time.

The most powerful application of body language to attract women really comes with speaking. After you approach a woman and start talking, never stand directly in front of her holding eye contact. Subconsciously, women interpret this as a challenge, and it is not attractive. Always stand at an angle to a woman and rotate your weight slowly from one foot to another. This gives her the impression that you are relaxed and comfortable, and that you aren’t staying in the conversation that long. Throughout the conversation, always make eye contact and hold it, but take breaks to look at her lips every few seconds. Also take short breaks to look away from her. This helps her to feel more comfortable, and also makes her work to have you make more eye contact.

If you can master these principles of being at angle to her while speaking, keeping your weight on the backs of your heels and slowly rotating weight from one foot to the other for the first few minutes of a conversation with a girl, you will find her working more to keep the conversation going, because her subconscious automatically triggers a fear of loosing you. Its a basic human principle, if we feel scarcity, and have a fear of loosing something, it becomes more attractive

The key to healthy body language is to look like it comes naturally. We’ve all seen guys obviously trying to hard to stick their chest out and push their shoulders back, probably even holding a drink up to their chest in the bar trying to take up as much space as possible. Sticking out your chest and standing as tall as you can is a factor in attracting women, but only when it looks natural.

The key to naturally attractive body language is simple, and it only takes about a week to ensure that you’ll have attractive body language all the time. For just a minute every morning and night, stand with your back against a wall in your bedroom and concentrate on keeping your heels, calves, butt, shoulders and the back of your head against the wall. Roll your shoulders back and have them flush against the wall. Hold this position for a minute, then walk around your room for 30 seconds to a minute trying to hold that exact same position. This employs principles of subconscious programing that will slowly teach your mind to hold your body in that position all the time.

Attracting any woman you want entails much more than just a perfect body language, and to sum up everything else that matters, I recommend Double your Dating by David Deangelo. Once you’ve got body language down, you can couple it with a strategic move on page 83 that sets off any female interaction right by getting her to try and impress you right from the get go.