Gain confidence with women
It constantly blows my mind how many quality guys that come up to me saying that they would do anything to just be confident. I’ve met some of the best, most quality guys in the world, but women never see who they really are, because they lack confidence.
The first step to gaining real confidence with women is to understand that even the best pick up artists in the world get rejected sometimes. There are just to many factors out of your control when you hit on a girl. She could be on her period, she could have just gotten out of a relationship, or her and her girlfriends could have just decided it was going to be “frigid bitch night”. Keeping this in mind, when a woman does reject you, she is not actually rejecting you, but only your approach.
How could a woman ever reject you after only a few moments of knowing you anyway? She doesn’t know enough about you to accurately judge weather or not you are someone she wants in her life. She is forced to make judgements about you based on the way she feels about how you first interact with her. So she is only rejecting her first (and often wrong) impression of you. The point is that there is no such thing as being rejected, you are only receiving input on how to approach and attract a woman better next time. This is why learning the art of attraction is so important. You must put your best foot forward, knowing what to say to women, and how to say it in any interaction.
Lastly, guys that have the most success with women are confident because they are competent. Many times people talk about confidence with women like its some sort of jedi, mystical power that you either have or you don’t. Think about how confident you are walking from one room of your house to the other. You know exactly how to walk to get there, so you just do it. A baby on the other hand may be nervous to walk just a few feet, because he really doesn’t know how to walk. The same principle applies with women. To gain true confidence, you have to learn how to pickup women. This is done by learning from one of the few quality books and learning systems that are available on the subject.
Understanding that there are factors out of your control, that a woman never actually rejects who you are as a person, and that true confidence comes with competence are the three things you must understand first. To quickly and easily adopt unshakable inner confidence with women, check out Double your Dating.