How to tell if your too needy with women

Women are not attracted to neediness. In this realm of attraction, neediness is defined as constantly needing to much support, validation, and reinforcement from women. Women can sense this like you can’t believe, because they are much more perceptive than men are. Here are a few signs to watch for that can tell you if you are teetering dangerously close to giving a woman the impression that you are overly needy.

You sit around trying to decide if you should call her on the phone.

When you call a girl, it should be because you want to call her, and it just popped into your head at that moment, and you thought it was a good idea. Calling a girl spur of the moment or within a few seconds of deciding to call her makes you much more relaxed and comfortable. The same principle applies when you approach a woman. It causes you to be the same person that you are when you call one of your friends.

Calling a girl should be as spontaneous as calling one of your guy friends. There is no need to have a plan when calling her, just call her, shoot the breeze for a few minutes, telling her something exciting that happened to you that day (at least make something up, its flirting, not lying) and then excuse yourself to get back to whatever fun thing you were doing before calling her. If calling a girl spur of the moment without any plan sounds daunting, Double your Dating is an absolute necessity. It will give you the attitudes that you need to be ridiculously attractive to women, regardless of looks or money.

If you have found yourself wondering if you should call her for the past four hours, then under no circumstance should you call her. It will be apparent in your voice, how your talking, and what your saying that you are insecure, and unsure that you should be on the phone with her.

You give her way more “understanding” than any of your friends.

If your best friend was supposed to meet you for lunch and didn’t show up, you’d call him and ask what the heck was going on. If he missed lunch with you three days in a row, you’d start thinking he was a douche bag that was incapable of making plans or being committed to anything and you would probably distance yourself from him.

So when a girl constantly tells you that she’s sick when you ask her out, says she has plans, or says she will call back and never does, why do guys constantly make up excuses for her, trying to make it okay that she bailed on them, or never called back?

Screw the common saying “three strikes your out” and cut it down to two strikes or just one if she does something totally unacceptable. If a girl says no to two different dates, or if she doesn’t answer or return your calls twice, then forget about her. In the long run she will respect you much more because you were the guy that just left after she didn’t give you the attention she wanted, instead of nagging her and being overly needy for three months straight.

Delete her number. I guarantee she’ll call you out of the blue two months later, wondering why you disappeared.

you call her or text her more than 2 times with no response from her.

In a girls world, this is probably the craziest, weirdest thing that you could do. Women’s lives are chock full of lunatic dudes that text them and call them incessantly even though the girl never calls them back. I have gotten to a point in my game where I can attract any woman that I want, and girls now do this to me. There is one girl named chelsea that texts me or calls me at least once every two days and I have not returned one of her attempts to talk to me for at least two months. I feel like she is a psycho.

Text a girl or call her once, if she doesn’t respond, you can text her or call her one more time. After that, you can, under no circumstances, ever call or text her again until she calls or texts you first. If I could, I would engrave this rule in the moon, really big, so that they whole world could see it. If you are constantly calling her and messaging her, or even emailing her to no response, you have fallen into the dark, deep, cavern of being overly needy, and its time to crawl back out.