If you learn from the best resources available, learning how to pickup women is a skill that any guy can learn. Most guys are just to stubborn to admit they have room to improve, so they never take advantage of few quality resources there are to learn how to pickup women.

Heres four key elements of the pick up to get you on your way to meeting and dating the type of women you haven’t had access to before.

Say something to her immediately
Beautiful women, even not so beautiful women, are bombarded everyday by anywhere from 1 to 20 guys staring at them, ogling over them, asking them the generic “how are you doing?”, and just creeping them out in general.
To pickup women, you must be the exception to every other guy. When you see an attractive woman, always approach within the first few seconds of noticing her. This makes it look like your approach is spontaneous, and the woman wont feel like you’ve been looking at her and waiting for the perfect opportunity to pounce on her. It seems like you are naturally social if you approach her as soon as you notice her.

What to say
When approaching women you have to open the conversation with something neutral and non-threatening. The key is to be saying something to the woman that you could be saying to anyone else. Instead of saying “hey, I noticed you have really great hair” or “wow your ass looks like a bikini models” say “hey, really quick, my friend and I aren’t in this part of town often and were wondering weather Bobs pizza kitchen is good, or if we should just hit up Alfred’s pizza parlor across the street”.
A favorite of mine is; “Hey, my friends and I are having a debate and we need a neutral opinion….After a breakup, do you go out the next night and meet new people so that you can get over your ex, or do you stay inside eating ice cream and playing video games for 6 months, what’s healthier?” Of course you are using a playful tone when asking this, and you can go on to say how your roommate got broken up with, deleted all the girls numbers in his phone, and said he was gonna play on the Wii for 6 months till he got better. “Thats not healthy right? Your a girl and your all emotional, you should know the answer to these things.” Again, with a fun, joking and energetic tone. I’ve asked this opinion to many girls at party’s, in clubs, and even on the train, and it gets me into an intriguing conversation ever time.

Appear as if your not trying to pick her up
When most men try to pickup a woman, they approach her head on, making direct eye contact, and asking the same interview question’s that women have heard their whole lives. These guys SEEM like they are trying to pickup the woman.
Remember in the Bob’s pizza kitchen line we included “hey, really quick” before you asked her opinion. This is important because it makes it appear as if you just want a quick opinion and your on your way. The woman doesn’t feel like she’s being picked up. You have to communicate the same thing with your [body language]. As soon as you start asking the pizza parlor question, turn away at an angle as if you are going to run off as soon as she gives you an answer.

Notice something about her
Once she has given you an opinion or answer, the pickup can begin. Just as you say thank you and your body language is showing her that your about to walk away, notice something about her.
Just the other day I approached a woman in a coffee shop and after she told me that it was okay for my best friend to date my cousin in law (see how creative you can get with pickup?)I noticed all of the gold necklaces she was wearing and said (playfully) “geez, thats allot of gold you’ve got going on there….Are you trying to convince people your royalty or something?”. That quickly put me into a conversation with her where she was justifying to me that she was actually very humble, but her necklaces had high nostalgic value in her family so she wore them. It is once our in a conversation with her the the real “pickup” starts, and you can really start to impress her.

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Having an appealing body language is one of the most overlooked aspects of attracting women. To often guys focus incessantly on what to say to a girl, how to say it, or trying to find the perfect pickup line. There is a killer way to use body language to attract women while talking to them, as well as a simple exercise you can do to ensure good body language all the time.

The most powerful application of body language to attract women really comes with speaking. After you approach a woman and start talking, never stand directly in front of her holding eye contact. Subconsciously, women interpret this as a challenge, and it is not attractive. Always stand at an angle to a woman and rotate your weight slowly from one foot to another. This gives her the impression that you are relaxed and comfortable, and that you aren’t staying in the conversation that long. Throughout the conversation, always make eye contact and hold it, but take breaks to look at her lips every few seconds. Also take short breaks to look away from her. This helps her to feel more comfortable, and also makes her work to have you make more eye contact.

If you can master these principles of being at angle to her while speaking, keeping your weight on the backs of your heels and slowly rotating weight from one foot to the other for the first few minutes of a conversation with a girl, you will find her working more to keep the conversation going, because her subconscious automatically triggers a fear of loosing you. Its a basic human principle, if we feel scarcity, and have a fear of loosing something, it becomes more attractive

The key to healthy body language is to look like it comes naturally. We’ve all seen guys obviously trying to hard to stick their chest out and push their shoulders back, probably even holding a drink up to their chest in the bar trying to take up as much space as possible. Sticking out your chest and standing as tall as you can is a factor in attracting women, but only when it looks natural.

The key to naturally attractive body language is simple, and it only takes about a week to ensure that you’ll have attractive body language all the time. For just a minute every morning and night, stand with your back against a wall in your bedroom and concentrate on keeping your heels, calves, butt, shoulders and the back of your head against the wall. Roll your shoulders back and have them flush against the wall. Hold this position for a minute, then walk around your room for 30 seconds to a minute trying to hold that exact same position. This employs principles of subconscious programing that will slowly teach your mind to hold your body in that position all the time.

Attracting any woman you want entails much more than just a perfect body language, and to sum up everything else that matters, I recommend Double your Dating by David Deangelo. Once you’ve got body language down, you can couple it with a strategic move on page 83 that sets off any female interaction right by getting her to try and impress you right from the get go.